Trust Me!
by Patricia Dailey
Senior Pastor, Bethel Revival Center
43 Norwood St.
Everett, MA 02149
Job 23:1-2
Then Job answered and said, Even to day is my complaint bitter:
my stroke is heavier than my groaning (read 23:1-14).
We know from the Scriptures that Job was a man who loved God, eschewing —
having nothing to do with — evil (see Job 1:8). God said he was a perfect and
upright man. And in the trial he was facing, he had a spiritual desire: longing
to find God.
This trial hit Job hard. He lost all his children, all his animals; and then
Satan was permitted to touch his body, smiting him with boils from the top of
his head to the soles of his feet. What an awful ordeal.
Anybody who has ever had any boils knows how miserable even one boil can be.
Imagine being smitten with boils from the top of your head to the soles of your
feet! What a painful thing to have to go through.
Job said that his complaint was bitter and his stroke was heavier than his
groaning. He found himself in a bitter and hard trial, with times of fretting
about finding God.
David's Hard Trial
Psalm 55:1,2
Give ear to my prayer, O God; and hide not Thyself from my
supplication. Attend unto me, and hear me: I mourn in my complaint, and make a
noise
We want to look at David now. In this psalm we can see that he was restless.
He faced a hard trial and was mourning because of it.
There are times when we may cry or feel pain and hurt. We all feel those
things when we're going through such a time. We might cry because of the hurt
and pain and suffering we are going through, but that doesn't mean we don't
have faith in God.
When we have faith in God, we need to commit ourselves unto the Lord's hands
— commit everything about the trial into His hands, knowing there's not a thing
that we can do in ourselves.
Jeremiah's Trial
Lamentations 3:7
He hath hedged me about, that I cannot get out: He hath
made my chain heavy.
Jeremiah was in a situation he couldn't get out of, and we might find
ourselves in a situation where we cannot get out of it. We just have to wait
until God sets us free, until He brings us out of what we are facing. No matter
what we do, we cannot change the situation. Yes, we can pray. We can stand and
believe and trust God; but until His set time, we will not be able to come out
of the trial.
If you find yourself in a situation like this, you need to pour out your
complaint to the Lord. That's the best place to take your complaints. Instead
of complaining and bogging others down with your problems, take them to the
Lord . . . and leave them there.
He has put Scriptures into His Word that are words of encouragement. He lets
us know it's right to pour out our complaint unto Him because He is the only
one who can help us. He knows you're human and He understands what you're
facing.
Sometimes, He may use those who will do kind deeds to try and help us during
such a time. They have an understanding and can feel for us when we're going
through something like this, and they will do what they can to help out.
Whatever one sows they will also reap. If they sow kindness and love, and do
whatever is in their power to help another who is going through a terrible
time, you can rest assured they will reap what they have sown. One day, they
might be facing a difficult time and see God really moving by sending others to
care for them.
I thank God we have these precious Scriptures to show us this fact. God will
not overlook you when you find yourself in a horrible trial: He will raise up
someone who will stand with you, someone who will encourage you, and someone to
help out in whatever way wherever they can.
Facing a Mental Conflict
Now, David was grieving; he was restless; and he had a mental conflict that
caused him to be sorrowful, mourning over this thing that he was going through.
We can see here a great man of God who also had quite a time going through
this period of his life.
We can see it's not unusual for someone to react like this when facing a
hard time, and especially when it's a long period of time.
David went through a trial for a long period of time; Job went through a
long hard trial. He mentions about going through this for months and months,
but we don't know really how long he faced this horrible time.
The main thing in facing such a hard time is to keep your faith in God and
in His promises, knowing that He is going to bring you through. According to
the Word of God, He will bring you through unto victory. He brought David
through. He brought Job through. And He'll bring you through.
Now, we read in psalms of another man who faced similar hard times:
Asaph's Trial
Psalm 77:1,2 A Psalm of Asaph.
I cried unto God with my voice, even unto God
with my voice; and He gave ear unto me. In the day of my trouble I sought the
Lord: my sore ran in the night, and ceased not: my soul refused to be
comforted.
Asaph had a sore that just would not quit running, and his soul refused to
be comforted.
You might know of someone who is in such a difficult, long, hard trial. It
is a very sorrowful time for them, and, no matter how much you try to comfort
them, their soul will not be comforted. Only God can comfort such a one.
There are many times, though, when people who are facing a long, hard,
difficult period of time can be comforted by what others do for them. It helps
them to know that someone has a genuine love for them and is standing right
there by them to fight the battle with them: praying and fasting, and doing
things to comfort and encourage.
Psalm 77:3,4
I remembered God, and was troubled: I complained, and my spirit
was overwhelmed. Selah. Thou holdest mine eyes waking: I am so troubled that I
cannot speak.
That word Selah means to pause and think on. We need to think about
this: I remembered God, and was troubled: I complained, and my spirit was
overwhelmed.
The trial Asaph found himself in crushed him; it overwhelmed him. This sore
that wouldn't stop running seemed to overcome him.
I can see why he would be troubled. In a long time of having a hard trial,
you wonder why it's taking so long. And you do get troubled: "Why is it
taking so long for God to come on the scene?"
In my own life, I've gone through many things that were difficult, but God
brought me through each time. I didn't always come through right away, but I
did always come through. God has been so faithful down through the years — and
He is still faithful. He will not suffer (allow) His faithfulness to fail, nor
alter the thing that is gone out of His mouth (see Psalm 89:33,34).
God is working in us, in ways we may not always be aware of. He is trying to
get us prepared for what He has for us as His people; and if we have
surrendered all to God, we will rejoice in the end.
When we are sincere with Him, we will see the great blessing when it comes.
We will be able to say, "It's been worth it all." We'll thank God that He enabled
us to hang right in there, not turning from Him.
Yes, it certainly will be worth it all when we see what God has really done
through the hard, difficult trials we went through.
We must realize that we were born unto trouble (see Job 5:7). We cannot
escape troubles in this life. Having trials is common to all people. But we who
are God's people can turn to Him in our trials and find Him an ever-present
help. We have Almighty God — the living, true God — whom we can call upon in
time of trouble. He will help us and give us strength and grace to endure what
we have to go through.
The sinner has no one to call on. They lean on the arm of flesh, which will
only fail them.
Sometimes, in the midst of a long hard trial, we say, "I can't take any
more. I can't handle any more." But the more we say that, the more we find
ourselves having to take.
We see that Asaph was troubled. He complained, and his spirit was
overwhelmed. The trial crushed him, overcoming him.
But, thank God, these accounts are in the Scriptures to let us know that the
way we feel in our trials, the things we say, are no different than what these
men of old said. We find when they were going through similar hard trials, they
said just what we have said.
God Was Hidden from Job
Job 23:8,9
Behold, I go forward, but He is not there; and backward, but I
cannot perceive Him: on the left hand, where He doth work, but I cannot behold
Him: He hideth Himself on the right hand, that I cannot see Him
This is a hard situation with Job. He had been in touch with God but now
finds himself in this overwhelming trial.
You know, sometimes when you go through hard trials like Job went through —
not saying you will have boils or lose your family and everything you've got;
yet, you are facing a horrible trial in your life — you can try to pray, and
sometimes you can't even feel the presence of God. But you've got to realize
from the Scriptures that we don't walk by feelings, neither do we walk by
sight, but we walk by faith.
Not Sight, nor Feelings, but by Faith
This is one thing we've got to really take to heart, that our faith doesn't
depend on feeling God's presence.
Just because you don't feel Him, do know that He is with you. This is one
thing you can stand on, for He has promised to never leave you, nor to forsake
you (see Hebrews 13:5).
If we went by the way things looked, Satan would put fear on us. This is
where people get it wrong: They go by looks instead of by faith.
We must put that away and begin to walk by faith — not going by what we see
or by what we feel. We need to have genuine faith in God, walking by faith,
knowing that all things are in His hands and that He does all things well and
has everything in and under His control.
God Knows All about Us
Psalm 139:2-4
Thou knowest my downsitting and mine uprising, Thou
understandest my thought afar off. Thou compassest my path and my lying down,
and art acquainted with all my ways. For there is not a word in my tongue, but,
lo, O LORD, Thou knowest it altogether.
God knows all about us, and this is what we want to see. Some people say they
will keep quiet about what they feel about someone, yet they are thinking that
thing they won't say. God hears that thought. He knows the words that you had
in mind yet wouldn't speak.
Nahum 1:7
The LORD is good, a strong hold in the day of trouble; and He
knoweth them that trust in Him.
Yes, God knows those who trust in Him, and in the day of trouble He won't
forsake them. He is their stronghold, their place of safety. When we place
ourselves into His hands, when we're in trouble, we can rest assured that He
will take care of us because we trust Him. When we take hold of the Scriptures
and place our trust in the Lord, we will have genuine faith in Him, and nothing
will be able to cause us to fear, doubt, or worry.
Pure Gold Tried in the Fire
Job 23:10
But He knoweth the way that I take: when He hath tried me, I shall
come forth as gold.
This is what we should really desire when we are tried, that in the end of
the trial we would come forth as gold, spiritually refined. Yes, if we let the
Lord work in us during the testing times, during the trials and troubles we go
through in this life, we will come forth as pure gold.
I Peter 1:7
That the trial of your faith, being much more precious than of
gold that perisheth, though it be tried with fire, might be found unto praise
and honour and glory at the appearing of Jesus Christ
Gold is purified in fire, being put in the fire seven times. Who knows how
many times we may have to go through a trial before we are as purified gold! We
may have to go through the fire seven times.
Job knew he would come forth as pure gold when he came through the horrible
trial he was facing. By the time he was through with that trial, he would be
spiritually refined. All the things that would be in him as dross would be
taken away, leaving just pure gold.
This is what we should want: to be as pure gold. We want to be pure in
heart, because only the pure in heart will see God. We should be saying,
"Lord, I don't really want to go through trials, but, Lord, I want to be
pure in heart."
If you say this type of thing to the Lord and you mean business, you can
rest assured that you will go through fiery trials. It's up to you whether or
not you're going to let God work to bring all that dross to the surface, all
those things that shouldn't be in you, where He can remove it and bring you
forth with a pure heart.
I Peter 4:12
Beloved, think it not strange concerning the fiery trial which
is to try you, as though some strange thing happened unto you
It's not a strange thing to have fiery trials. What about the three Hebrew
boys? They were tried by fire. They went into that fiery furnace, and God
brought them out.
Isaiah 24:15a
Wherefore glorify ye the LORD in the fires . . .
This is pretty hard to do sometimes. But if we begin to glorify God in the
fire, I believe we will find that we will have more peace and joy in our
trials, knowing that God will bring us through as He did the three Hebrew boys.
Now, they weren't going to bow, weren't going to bend . . . and they weren't
going to burn, because God was with them and would bring them forth out of the
fire without even the smell of smoke.
Trials Work for Us
II Corinthians 4:17
For our light affliction, which is but for a moment, worketh
for us a far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory
Paul wrote this to the Corinthian church, but know that he also was writing
it to us. We look at Paul's life and see all the hardships he went through: the
beatings, the stoning, the shipwrecks, the clubbing, the stripes. He went
through a lot of suffering because he said he bore in his body the marks of the
Lord Jesus Christ. He had stripes on his back. His body was scarred from
whippings.
Yes, Paul knew what he was talking about. He went through all of this, yet
he could say it worked for him a far more exceeding and eternal weight of
glory.
I can see what he is saying here. All that we go through, no matter how hard
it may be, cannot compare to that future, eternal glory that awaits us. So we
thank God.
We think we have it bad. We think we're going through a hard time. But we
should know that it is just for a moment in comparison to eternity.
Don't Get Bitter
Job 23:11
My foot hath held His steps, His way have I kept, and not
declined.
In the midst of the trials, Job didn't let his foot slip; he didn't go
backwards; he did not backslide. Sometimes people get bitter toward God through
the horrible experiences they are going through and they backslide. But, no
matter what happens, we must not allow ourselves to get bitter toward God.
God is a good God. He knows what He's doing, even if we don't know. He has a
plan and a purpose that He wants to bring about in our lives. So, we don't want
to get bitter with God because of something that happens to us along life's
journey. Nor should we be bitter toward anyone else.
Job 23:12
Neither have I gone back from the commandment of His lips; I have
esteemed the words of His mouth more than my necessary food.
Job was stedfast, unmovable. He loved his God. The Lord was precious to Job.
Even though he was going through a hard time in his life, he wasn't going to
turn away from His God. He didn't backslide over all that happened to him. One
thing about it: Job loved the truth. He loved God's commandments.
I Thessalonians 3:3
That no man should be moved by these afflictions: for
yourselves know that we are appointed thereunto.
We shouldn't be moved by the things that happen to us, moved by the hard
things we have to go through.
Thank God for our firm foundation: Jesus Christ and His sayings (see Matthew 7:24-27). If we
weren't founded on the Rock Christ Jesus, the storms of this life would shatter
our house. But because we are founded on the Rock Christ Jesus, we will not
fall. We will not have to worry about falling in the time of hardships,
troubles, and dark periods of time.
If you love Him and are trusting in Him, you don't have to worry about a
thing. You can put it all on Him and trust Him to take care of it. He'll take
you through.
You might be experiencing an inner trial that you've really been struggling
with. Listen, put your trust in God. Trust Him: He'll take you through.
Job 23:11,12
My foot hath held His steps, His way have I kept, and not
declined. Neither have I gone back from the commandment of His lips; I have
esteemed the words of His mouth more than my necessary food.
Nahum 1:7
The LORD is good, a strong hold in the day of trouble; and He
knoweth them that trust in Him.